Not Your Dad’s Leadership Blog
Follow along for insights, reflections, tips and tools I’ve learned on my journey from workplace trauma and burnout to Feminine Leadership Coach, Self-Love Coach, and Energy Healer
(and also musings on being a millennial woman in this day and age. ☺️)
A Blog By Lindsey Maza, Founder of The Self-Love Knowing + the Not Your Dad’s Leadership Movement
How Self-Love Can Help You Navigate Conflict as a Leader
Self-love isn’t just about feeling good—it’s a powerful tool for handling conflict at work with resilience and confidence. Discover how centering on self-love allows you to stay grounded, set healthy boundaries, and handle tough situations with ease.
3 Ways to Forgive Yourself and Lead With More Compassion
Self-Forgiveness is tough. We mess up, we replay it on a loop, and we get stuck in a guilt spiral. Sound familiar?
But here’s the truth: Self-Forgiveness isn’t just about moving on. It’s about showing yourself the love and compassion you deserve—because if you don’t, who will?
Why Emotional Regulation is About Holding Space, Not Control
When you think of “emotional regulation,” do you picture controlling your feelings and staying composed? Let's look at it from a new perspective: Emotional regulation isn’t about control—it’s about holding space.
Move Beyond Emotional Intelligence: Embrace Emotional Embodiment
What if every leader gave themselves the grace to truly feel and reflect? How different would your workplace feel? How would your workplace change?
When we lead with Emotional Embodiment, we model a new way of being—one that embraces humanity and elevates the entire workplace.
Why Emotional Intelligence is a Feminine Leadership Superpower
Have you ever noticed how, somewhere along the way, we were taught that being emotional was a weakness? That in order to be successful, we had to suppress our natural instincts—our empathy, our intuition, our emotional intelligence—and trade them in for a more “masculine” version of leadership?
It’s time we talk about why that’s not working—and how embracing your emotional intelligence, the feminine way, can be your ultimate superpower.
Feminine Leadership Principle #10: Honor Yourself with Holistic Care + Lead with Alignment
Taking care of your whole self isn’t a luxury—it’s a leadership necessity. You might think you can power through on fumes, but let’s be real: sustainable, impactful leadership only happens when you prioritize your health, your body, and your mind. This principle isn’t about squeezing in a quick workout or a bubble bath (although both are chef’s kiss ✨). It’s about creating a lifestyle where caring for yourself is non-negotiable.
Feminine Leadership Principle #9: Movement—Inspire Progress + Cultivate Growth
Let’s be real—leadership isn’t about standing still. If you want your team to thrive, you need to be moving forward, growing, and inspiring them to do the same. It’s not about rushing or forcing change but fostering an environment where progress and innovation naturally flourish. Your job as a leader is to inspire others to take that next step with confidence, creativity, and trust in themselves.
Feminine Principle #8: Respect Your Energy Levels + Lead without Burning Out
Ever feel like you're running on fumes, but you keep pushing yourself because, well, that’s what “good leaders” do, right? Wrong. Respecting your energy levels is one of the most important things you can do, not just for yourself, but for your leadership.
Feminine Principle #7: Cope With Your Emotions + Lead With Compassion
Handling emotions with kindness isn’t just about being nice, it’s about fostering a work culture where everyone feels understood and valued. It’s about taking a moment to breathe, be gentle with yourself, and lead with a heart full of understanding.
Feminine Principle #6: Feel Your Success + Embrace Your Value
Many women struggle with this feeling that celebrating themselves might come off as bragging or being unworthy. But here's the truth: acknowledging and celebrating your achievements is essential for your growth and joy as a leader!