Three practical Monday morning moves to be more authentic at work, from making vague feedback specific to sorting boundaries from fear

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So, here's what most women do with everything they pick up in a room.

They use it to protect themselves. They feel the skepticism across the table and soften their position before anyone's even pushed back.

And that makes complete sense. Reading the room to protect yourself is a survival strategy. It works.

Until it starts working against you.

You walk into a tense meeting and something shifts. You shrink, soften, hold back. Here's what's actually happening, and how to stop letting the room run you.

I've been talking about Self-Skills™ for a while now. And I've noticed some patterns in how people respond.

Some women immediately go "YES. Finally someone is saying this." And they book a call.

And some women go "I don't know... this sounds a little..." And they don't.

This post is for the second group. Because I think a lot of what's stopping women from engaging with this work is based on misconceptions. And I'd rather just address them head on than watch another high achieving woman talk herself out of something that could genuinely change how she leads. So here we go: