Not Your Dad’s Leadership Blog

Follow along for insights, reflections, tips and tools I’ve learned on my journey from workplace trauma and burnout to Feminine Leadership Coach, Self-Love Coach, and Energy Healer

(and also musings on being a millennial woman in this day and age. ☺️)


A Blog By Lindsey Maza, Founder of The Self-Love Knowing + the Not Your Dad’s Leadership Movement

Why Emotional Intelligence is a Feminine Leadership Superpower
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Why Emotional Intelligence is a Feminine Leadership Superpower

Have you ever noticed how, somewhere along the way, we were taught that being emotional was a weakness? That in order to be successful, we had to suppress our natural instincts—our empathy, our intuition, our emotional intelligence—and trade them in for a more “masculine” version of leadership?

It’s time we talk about why that’s not working—and how embracing your emotional intelligence, the feminine way, can be your ultimate superpower.

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Feminine Leadership Principle #10: Honor Yourself with Holistic Care + Lead with Alignment
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Feminine Leadership Principle #10: Honor Yourself with Holistic Care + Lead with Alignment

Taking care of your whole self isn’t a luxury—it’s a leadership necessity. You might think you can power through on fumes, but let’s be real: sustainable, impactful leadership only happens when you prioritize your health, your body, and your mind. This principle isn’t about squeezing in a quick workout or a bubble bath (although both are chef’s kiss ✨). It’s about creating a lifestyle where caring for yourself is non-negotiable.

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Feminine Leadership Principle #9: Movement—Inspire Progress + Cultivate Growth
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Feminine Leadership Principle #9: Movement—Inspire Progress + Cultivate Growth

Let’s be real—leadership isn’t about standing still. If you want your team to thrive, you need to be moving forward, growing, and inspiring them to do the same. It’s not about rushing or forcing change but fostering an environment where progress and innovation naturally flourish. Your job as a leader is to inspire others to take that next step with confidence, creativity, and trust in themselves.

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Feminine Principle #2: Honor Your Inner Voice + Lead with Confidence
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Feminine Principle #2: Honor Your Inner Voice + Lead with Confidence

It’s just another Tuesday and you're in a crucial meeting. While all the data points to one decision, your gut is nudging you in a different direction. You hesitate, feeling the internal conflict between logic and intuition. Sound familiar?

This scenario is all too common for leaders, yet embracing your inner voice can transform your leadership practice.

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