
Not Your Dad’s Leadership Blog
Follow along for insights, reflections, tips and tools I’ve learned on my journey from workplace trauma and burnout to Feminine Leadership Coach, Self-Love Coach, and Energy Healer
(and also musings on being a millennial woman in this day and age. ☺️)
A Blog By Lindsey Maza, Founder of The Self-Love Knowing + the Not Your Dad’s Leadership Movement

Why Emotional Intelligence is a Feminine Leadership Superpower
Have you ever noticed how, somewhere along the way, we were taught that being emotional was a weakness? That in order to be successful, we had to suppress our natural instincts—our empathy, our intuition, our emotional intelligence—and trade them in for a more “masculine” version of leadership?
It’s time we talk about why that’s not working—and how embracing your emotional intelligence, the feminine way, can be your ultimate superpower.

Feminine Leadership Principle #10: Honor Yourself with Holistic Care + Lead with Alignment
Taking care of your whole self isn’t a luxury—it’s a leadership necessity. You might think you can power through on fumes, but let’s be real: sustainable, impactful leadership only happens when you prioritize your health, your body, and your mind. This principle isn’t about squeezing in a quick workout or a bubble bath (although both are chef’s kiss ✨). It’s about creating a lifestyle where caring for yourself is non-negotiable.

Feminine Leadership Principle #9: Movement—Inspire Progress + Cultivate Growth
Let’s be real—leadership isn’t about standing still. If you want your team to thrive, you need to be moving forward, growing, and inspiring them to do the same. It’s not about rushing or forcing change but fostering an environment where progress and innovation naturally flourish. Your job as a leader is to inspire others to take that next step with confidence, creativity, and trust in themselves.

Feminine Principle #8: Respect Your Energy Levels + Lead without Burning Out
Ever feel like you're running on fumes, but you keep pushing yourself because, well, that’s what “good leaders” do, right? Wrong. Respecting your energy levels is one of the most important things you can do, not just for yourself, but for your leadership.

Feminine Principle #7: Cope With Your Emotions + Lead With Compassion
Handling emotions with kindness isn’t just about being nice, it’s about fostering a work culture where everyone feels understood and valued. It’s about taking a moment to breathe, be gentle with yourself, and lead with a heart full of understanding.

Feminine Principle #6: Feel Your Success + Embrace Your Value
Many women struggle with this feeling that celebrating themselves might come off as bragging or being unworthy. But here's the truth: acknowledging and celebrating your achievements is essential for your growth and joy as a leader!

Feminine Principle #5: Discover the Joy in Leadership + Lead with Purpose
Do you ever find yourself so focused on the end goals that you forget to enjoy the practice of leading?
It's easy to get caught up in the daily grind of achieving targets and meeting deadlines, but there's immense value in finding joy in the act of leading itself!

Feminine Principle #4: Challenge Your Inner Critic + Embrace Self-Compassion
Starting your leadership journey can be daunting, especially with that persistent inner critic whispering doubts and highlighting your perceived flaws. It's easy to feel overwhelmed and question your capabilities.
However, challenging this inner critic is crucial for your growth as a leader.

Feminine Principle #3: Make Peace with Mistakes + Embrace Growth
Do you find yourself replaying your mistakes over and over, feeling like you should have done things differently?

Feminine Principle #2: Honor Your Inner Voice + Lead with Confidence
It’s just another Tuesday and you're in a crucial meeting. While all the data points to one decision, your gut is nudging you in a different direction. You hesitate, feeling the internal conflict between logic and intuition. Sound familiar?
This scenario is all too common for leaders, yet embracing your inner voice can transform your leadership practice.